46 minutes ago
I have some serious expectations about my messy bun game. I have a lot of expectations about a lot of things actually...
How my body should look.
What my relationships should be like.
What parenting a toddler should entail.
How my business should run.
What my life should look like.
Here's the thing...our expectations have a way of making us absolutely freaking insane (how many times have you redone your "messy" bun?) 🤦🏼♀️When our reality doesn't match our expectations it can suck, right? I used to think coaching was a scam, I wouldn't ever fight with my fiancé, and that my little guy would never be a cosleeper...Here's the thing. Life is going to happen ⚡️HOW⚡️it wants, and it won't always match those emotionally driven expectations you have. 🔥That's why it's so freaking important to be open to POSSIBILITY (within yourself and your external opportunities). .
I have a chance to what I thought was a scam and came out with a business I am passionate about, I trust in my relationship with my fiancé and we work through our hard days because we still have so much to learn about each other, my child cosleeps because #survival and because sometimes parenting doesn't go exactly as planned 🤷🏼♀️. It doesn't mean lowering your expectations, it doesn't mean you deserve less, it simply means we could all use an open mind. Growth happens outside our comfort zones and expectations will help you figure out where your zones lie. 🌱When we choose to be open and work hard (despite the mismatch in our expectations and reality) that's when we start achieving real success and focusing our energy on what moves us forward 💋xoxo #millennialmom #expectationvsreality #spendyourenergywisely